Plot Twist

Well, what could have been the end has turned out to be the
beginning.  

The plot twist I didn't want but certainly needed. 

As I surfaced, I did the internal work to wrap my head around it - I discovered that in this next chapter,  freedom isn’t in building bigger. 

For me, it's in building different.

Almost like EVERYthing has been leading to THIS moment.  

Where I finally stopped chasing. 

Where I finally stopped performing. 

And started really LISTENING to what I really wanted - which was LESS but BETTER. 

I'm sitting with this because I believe there are too many of us still trying to play by rules that don’t fit anymore.

Still trying to hang out in chapters that we've long since read and RE-read. 

Is it HARD to lose your identity? ummmmm yes.  Really hard. 

ESPECIALLY when it happens in midlife and there are so many OTHER identity shifts happening AT THE SAME TIME. 

But that doesn't mean we can't get to the other side of the hard and realize OH, I needed this…actually, THIS is better. 

The world is chaotic enough.  

We don’t need to hustle ourselves into exhaustion, we DO NOT need to perform for approval — this has been a big bit to work through for me. 

And we don’t need to chase what isn’t aligned.

If you're anything like me, you want energy, freedom, peace, and purpose.  You want something to go after, but not at the expense of everything else in life. You want freedom, but not at the cost of your sanity.   And you want to FEEL BETTER - I know I did.   

So if you’re ready to build differently, to LIVE differently, to FINALLY go AFTER YOUR BIG DREAMS...whether that’s in your wellness, your business, or your midlife chapter...please know that YES YOU CAN.  

It's not too late. 

You're not too old. 

The plot twist might be just what you need and I believe we need more of us going after goals in this world.